I just got an e-mail from Grant Adams at net2bed.com. It's a great message with two key ideas.
How do you think a woman views you upon first meeting you?
She's got two instant filters.
The first is "Is he good looking?"
Now, most of us don't have the chiseled features, rock hard
abs,and the 6'2" stature of an Abercrombie and Fitch pretty
boy...
So, does that mean that all of us "normal" guys are out of
luck? Nope. And pay attention to what I'm saying here...
Because the second, more important filter that a woman
processes you through is, "Is he ATTRACTIVE?"
And being attractive trumps being good looking every single
time.
So what does it mean to be attractive?
Being attractive means how confident you are, your
linguistic capability, your body language, your ease,
how you talk about yourself, how well you interact with
others, how comfortable you are in your skin, and if
your humor comes from a place of security.
Women pick up on all of this on an intuitive level, and
measure a man by THESE standards far more deeply than by
his physical appearance alone.
The question is, how do you nail down these traits QUICKLY
and PERMANENTLY??
In this month's Complete Attractor we will show you how
to reach DEEP attraction, and to jettison excuses once and
forever.
Because we talk to the extraordinary Sean Stephenson.
If you don't know Sean, here's what's slightly interesting
about him --
He's won the respect of teachers like Zan Perrion, David
DeAngelo, David Wygant, Lance Mason, and yours truly for
his unique contributions to strategies of Inner Game.
He practices what he preaches and is constantly surrounded
by gorgeous, intelligent women who love him for his confidence,
wit,and humor.
Outside the Community, he's shared the speaking platform with
figures such as Mark Victor Hanson, Henry Winkler, and Tony
Robbins.
That's all well and good, but here's what's REALLY interesting
about him...
Sean was supposed to DIE at birth.
He suffered more than 200 bone fractures by the age of 18, he
is about 3 feet tall, can't walk, and is permanently confined
to a wheelchair.
You read that right.
So how the f**k is YOUR day going?
Despite these challenges that would have buried an ordinary man,
Sean has overcome them, thrived, and become an extraordinary
teacher and an irresistible womanizer.
Yes, an IRRISISTIBLE WOMANIZER.
I was with him last night at a local restaurant and he was
hitting on the 18 year old hostess. And he was GOOD!
Ladies LOVE Sean (I can personally attest to this) and he is
always involved in positive, intimate relationships with gorgeous,
enlightened women.
The cool thing is that he can show you how to get there too,
and help you cut through every negative belief or limiting
notion you may have about yourself.
You can never retreat into excuses again.
Sean is the only one I know who got Tony Robbins to write
the intro to his forthcoming book. Tony NEVER does this for
anyone. But Sean is different. Sean is POWER.
And here he shares that power with you.
Have a brief listen to this clip as Sean explains the
difference between being good looking and being attractive.
And how you can be attractive no matter WHAT you believe is
holding you back.
Click here to listen to Sean.
As crazy as the idea may seem, how you perceive yourself and interact
with the world is far more important than any "facts," many of which
are nothing other than your fears and insecurities masquerading as the "truth."
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