Seduction Tip: Hot and Cold

In my recent reading I came across an interesting tip. In the initial stages of a conversation, you disagree with her. This creates tension and conflict. Remember, women love drama, otherwise you could score consistently just by saying, "I'm a man, you're a woman, we both like sex, so let's #@%." By disagreeing with her, you also show that you're not some mealy mouth butt kisser agreeing with everything she says because you're desperate for her approval.

Later in the conversation begin to agree with her. The impression you want to create is that she is "winning you over." This helps to relieve tension, and it also flatters her, in that it shows her persuasiveness and the influence she has on people.

I have seen other master pickup artists refer to this as "push/pull." The man's mind is utilitarian, focused on logic. Male thoughts move in a direct line from point A to pint B. The woman's mind is based on emotion, interaction, and I'm tempted to add, crazy-ass circles. Rather than being consistently and doggedly nice, open, interested, and so on, charging along in a straight line, the ability to run hot and cold, to push and pull, running from challenging, to indifferent, to teasing, to affectionate creates the emotional high that women crave and would more easily get if they just cut the crap and did heroin.