Before I rag on some clueless tool from The Magic Cafe, BG from the blogroll shared this link with me concerning "vibing" or filler conversation.
In the meantime, fastseduction.com has some useful advice on seduction. It is a forum where men post to offer their advice, their experiences (field reports), and to ask questions.
Remember, the problem has been for years --and even today, when it's totally unnecessary-- that men are all alone when it comes to scoring women. Most men are operating on common "knowledge" about success with women, ranging from "be a nice guy and buy her flowers for the date," to "act macho and wave your dick at her." A guy is just is just supposed to figure it all out on his own, but the problem is that seduction is so counterintuitive that the typical guy wouldn't figure it out in several lifetimes.
Men could ask for help, if it weren't for the wall of silence. Guys feel too embarrassed to ask for help: it's simply too humiliating to say, "I've been getting nowhere on my dates --I can't even get to second base. What am I doing wrong?" Any real man is supposed to know everything about seduction, or maybe you're gay, huh? Let me state clearly that I don't know it all, and I can only take pride in the improvement I've made, not at the level where I'm at.
The wall of silence is maintained by the blustering dildo who tries to cover up his own sexual inadequacy by stomping over someone else who has the balls to either offer help or to ask for it. Where else could I go to find a prototypical example of a blustering dildo, if not to The Magic Cafe? Nicholas Johnson states that a DVD offering romantic advice for guys in tandem with magic is "one of the saddest things I have seen." I have to guess that Nicholas is resorting to exaggeration here, unless he's never seen burn victims or a dead person.
Nicholas goes on to ask, "Has anyone ever ACTUALLY scored using magic?" [The random capitalization is his, not mine.]
Not everyone on the Cafe is a numbskull, as attested to the immediate and obvious retort to Nicky's anal-retentive post. "Do you think Copperfield gets dates on his personality? What does it matter? Why do you care?" Thank you, Magic Chris, for renewing my faith in the possibility of intelligent life on the Cafe.
Look at the photo at the top of this post. Guess who the dork in the helmet is? That's right, David Kotkin, or David Copperfield. How do you think he landed a babe like Claudia Schiffer? As I have said before, anything can be a vehicle to success and power, even soup.
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